Doesn't Believe Photos Are a Gag
Q: The other day I was cleaning our truck and I came across some pictures of my girlfriend hugging this guy. I asked her and she said that she and her cousin were trying to get this guy in trouble with his girlfriend. I am having a hard time believing this. What do you think of this situation? -- Joe, 29
Dr. Susan: Ask her for more details and see how her story holds up. Ask her why she kept the photos, and why she let herself get involved in some stupid game to get some guy "in trouble with his girlfriend." Sounds like high school behavior. Really dumb. So either she's lying and has been fooling around with that guy, or she's more immature than you expected. Either way, keep an eye on her and give yourself some time before trusting her one hundred per cent.
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