Can't Find Wife, Wants Sex
Q: I am a Christian and have been divorced about 9 years. I love sex but believe it's wrong not being married. I am getting older and can't find a wife. What should I do? -- James, 59
Dr. Susan: I hear that your first choice would be to get married again. If your religion is important to you, have you gotten deeply involved in your church's activities so that you can meet like-minded women? Have you expanded your parameters so that you're open to women around your own age, even a couple of years older? I believe people who are pleasant to be around can usually find a mate if they put their minds to it. If none of this is working for you, how about talking to someone in your church about what you're supposed to do next?
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Susan K. Perry, Ph.D.
Susan K. Perry, Ph.D., is a social psychologist, relationship expert, and bestselling and award-winning author. Her books include Loving in Flow: How the Happiest Couples Get and Stay That Way, and Kylie's Heel, a novel for adults.
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