I notice a lot of men here like to expose themselves. I encourage my wife to pay attention for any man that might be showing off. I hope you would still show off to her even though she is sixty-eight. I always tell her to look for guys in clingy shorts at the gym showing the outline of their package, as well as looking up their shorts when they squat and sit on all the machines. Keep showing off guys, the ladies are watching. It really perks up our sex talk and sex lives later on.