My wife has a long-term boyfriend. He is her only lover. I am not allowed to even see her naked. It has been ten years since I was allowed to touch her and twelve since I was allowed to have sex with her. We are all good friends and I am so glad that he is there to take care of her needs. I thank him for it every day. My role is to take care of the house, laundry, and cooking meals. I serve them meals, but eat my meal in the kitchen. For the most part, I wear dresses and heels and no one considers me a man any longer.