Can't Figure Him Out

I am a thirty-four year-old woman and have been seeing a guy who is twenty-five years old. We have only been together twelve weeks and now he is telling me he doesn't know what he wants. I met him through his mother at work. His mother and I are very good friends. He lives about an hour from me. He used to come see me, but lately we're only together if I go to see him. I really think he cares for me, and I really love being with him. He says he loves being with me, but I don't know what it is. I have two children that really like him. He is really good with them, and they are asking me when they are going to see him again. He was calling every night, but now it's only twice a week or so. I really don't believe he's cheating with anybody else. I have asked him to tell me if he doesn't want to see me any more so we can move on. He only says, "I don't know what I want."

— Penelope, 34

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