Attract the Woman You Want

If you're not attracting the kind of woman you're attracted to, then take a note from Gandhi: "Be the change that you want to see in the world." In other words, act like the kind of man who knows he can attract the kind of woman you want.

Change #1: Observe women whom you're attracted to and the men they're interacting with. Are there common traits these men display? Take notes and adopt the best of the best, as long as it suits your personality.

Change #2: Act confident. Which guy will the woman go for? One who says, "I know you're out of my league, but I thought I'd take a shot at asking you out." Or one who says, "You have a beautiful smile and so I just wanted to introduce myself." Sexy is as sexy does.

Change #3: Don't beg. If she turns you down, simply smile and say, "OK, enjoy your evening." Keep your shoulders up and your attitude strong. She'll rethink her decision faster if you don't take it personally and begin talking to your friends cheerfully like the rejection didn't faze you. Earn her admiration.

Change #4: Don't waste time. If you can tell you're really not making any headway with your ideal woman, move on. But don't move on to her friends. Just have fun with your own buddies and keep your confidence high until you find another woman you'd like to get to know.

Change #5: Focus on the positive. She doesn't want to hear about your problems. She doesn't want to be your mother or your psychiatrist. Eventually, of course, you can open up about your feelings. But even then, she doesn't want a guy who's too needy. She wants a guy who takes care of himself and has the ability to take care of her some, too.

Change #6: Be decisive. She wants you to show your strength and your desires. Of course cooperation and flexibility are good, but overall she wants a guy who knows what he wants and goes for it. Even if she disagrees with your decisions, she'll admire your confident ability to choose.

Change #7: Show affection. Words don't go as far as actions. Show her and the world that you care about her. Not in an over-the-top, making out in public kind of way, but in a gentle, affectionate, arm around her shoulders kind of way.

Change #8: Have a sense of humor. Stress comes up in so many ways in a relationship. Use humor to defuse those stressful times and you'll win big points with the object of your affection. A good sense of fun can be seriously sexy.

Think about which of these areas are your weak spots and try to change things up a bit. If you can work on taking a new approach in one or two of these areas at a time, you're likely to start having more success attracting your dream girl. Change is good!

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