Erase Your Sex Mistakes
Everyone screws up sometimes - even sex experts like us. When your big blow-'em-away move blows up in your face, how can you rebound from the blunder without having your date head for the door?
Own Up With an Apology
A sincere "I'm sorry" can clear up many a carnal mess. Explain that you were so nervous/excited/blind with passion that you did something a little out of character. Confessing shows that you realize your ridiculous behavior and, hey, maybe you'll get a little empathy out of it.
Keep a Sense of Humor
Go ahead and laugh when that crazy sexual position you wanted to try didn't work out and you find yourself falling off the bed or nursing a leg cramp. Studies show laughter can diffuse tension and keep problems in perspective. Besides, if you're not having fun, what's the point?
Talk About It
Assuming it wasn't an obviously horrific, run-screaming-from-the-room slip-up, talk about what did (and didn't) work there. If you're not sharing sexual feedback (even when it's embarrassing), you're limiting your lovemaking to mediocrity at best.
Make Mattress Amends
If your carnal error really was out of character - you mistakenly said or did something that really wasn't your personal style - make it up to your lover by showing your true colors. Once he or she realizes you're not always, for example, so stingy with your oral attention, they'll be more likely to overlook your faux-pas as a one-time gaffe.
Give your lover some time to get over your goof. Have you forgotten about it completely or made it into a shared private joke? Thumbs up. But, if after a week or so he or she still seems weirded out, you might think about moving on to a new mate.
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