Is Your Drive Stuck in Park?
Have you found lately that your engine is revving but the sparkplugs aren't firing? If so, first you need to recognize that you're far from the only guy to experience this less than satisfying scenario.
Your physical capabilities, so to speak, are often related to your mental state. Yes, we all know that guys in general want activity more often than women do. But not always. Is there something going on in your world to cause you extra stress? Something in your relationship that is holding you back from bedroom bliss?
Examine what extra stressful factors might be kicking you back into neutral just when you were raring to go. Whatever those elements might be, make a concerted effort to do something different. Try a change of routine, a change of scenery, a change of approaches to intimate fun.
One way to get the juices flowing again, so to speak, is to focus on yourself first. It seems counterintuitive, doesn't it? But making yourself happy first can get you back in the mood.
Then you need to get her back in the mood by giving her some undivided attention. When you're both gasping for air, you're more likely to let go of the emotional roadblocks that have been neutralizing your drive.
Strengthen Your Bond
If you want to build and release intimate energy, you need strength to see you through. Don't forget about the importance of building up that bod and keeping it fed. Try a new workout routine (maybe private sexy sessions with your girl) or even walks together in the evening holding hands. You can also sample some aphrodisiac foods that will put you both in the mood.
Talk can help too, but not in the heat of the moment. Discuss your issues during the day in a no pressure zone, like the living room or dining room. Then when you meet up for a late-night rendezvous, dive in and think nothing but sexy thoughts. No work issues, no relationship issues, no family or financial issues allowed. Just full-on passionate pairing.
Beforehand, try reading or watching something that will get you back in touch with your sizzling chemistry and the experiments you want to try. New accessories might be of assistance as well. Go shopping together for some lingerie for her or some toys that you can share to take your fun to a new level. Set the stage with sights and scents that promote a sexy vibe.
No matter what you do to shake things up, make it interesting and different. When one of your innovations begins working, encourage your girl to express herself. It helps if you can both feel and hear each other's enthusiasm. Remember, this is supposed to be fun, not stressful. If you combine love, laughter and lust, you're sure to cross the finish line with flags waving.
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