Set Free Her Inner Sex Kitten
She only wants to do the deed in the cover of darkness. She wraps herself in the sheets mummy-style before scooting off to the bathroom afterwards. And her idea of revealing lingerie is something full-length and black (and she'll keep it on, thank-you-very-much).
Sound familiar? Looks like your lady is conditioned to be a "good girl." And it's going to be your job to let her know it's okay to break that mold. This is how.
Have an Emergency Exit
If she's a little shy about shunning convention, it's probably driven by a fear that things will get freaky and out of control. Make it clear that if things get uncomfortable, you'll both call it quits. And for heaven's sake, if she does say stop, be cool about it. Keeping it low key will make it easier to try again later.
Imagine her doing something wild and then describe your fantasy to her in rapturous detail. She'll feel more confident trying your new ideas when she believes you think she's capable of it.
Pile on the Praise
Sure, we know the very fact that you want to see her naked means you find her hot, but she needs to actually hear you say it. Compliment her body and how it makes you feel. Encourage her with your excitement about doing things together.
Grant a Wish
Did she kid around about going skinnydipping? Find her a lake. She joked about performing a striptease? Buy her something sexy to shimmy out of. Helping her conquer her fears will build trust - making her more likely to be daring in the future.
Take Baby Steps
You gotta crawl before you can walk, which in sex-speak means you have to tie her up with silk scarves before you can move onto the steel handcuffs. Try sexy variations on your usual positions before you try one of those crazy "Grasshopper Milking a Cow" "Kama Sutra"-style moves. Make love in your own backyard before you take on the city park.
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