Is She Into You?

So you're talking to a girl and you think she's into you. How do you know for sure? How do you know when to ask her out? Pay attention to what she says and how she says it and you should have some good clues about whether to make a move to get closer or move on.

Get a Clue #1: What Do Her Lips Say?
If she's talking to you, that's a good sign. Pay attention to what she says. Does she agree with you a lot or disagree? Is her tone of voice soft and throaty, with lots of laughter when you talk to her? Or is it more businesslike with a flat tone of voice? Soft and throaty is obviously good. If she's treating you like a business contact that she's obligated to interact with, then the jury's still out, but things don't look so good. Try to discover some hobby or interest she has and get her talking about it. Try to make her laugh. If she's not talking to you at all, only making eye contact, then you've probably got a lot more work to do before deciding whether to ask her out. See Clues #2 and 3 before making a move.

Get a Clue #2: What Does Her Face Say?
When you approach her, does she smile with feeling? A polite smile is typically just a movement of the lips. An enthusiastic, I'm-into-you smile involves her cheeks and makes her eyes crinkle with delight. And along those lines, do her eyes light up when she sees you or are they neutral? When she's not so into you, you might notice it seems like a shade has been drawn and you can't see into the depth of her eyes. That means she's emotionally closing you out. On the other hand, when you're emotionally connected, you'll feel that radiating toward you from the depth of her eyes.

Get a Clue #3: What Does Her Body Say?
Unfortunately, if she's not sure about you, she'll be more hunched over or physically lean back when you approach her. If she's enjoying talking to you, she's likely to tilt her head and lean toward you. You might notice her shaking her hair or pushing it back. These are good signs that she wants you to think she's attractive. If you have a reason to show her something that will require a closer look, give it a try. If she leans in or puts her hand near yours, that's a very good sign. If she seems to be keeping as much distance as she can while showing polite interest, you're not in her good graces yet. If she puts her hand on your arm and shows some of the other signs above, you might have a good chance of getting beyond friendly talking.

Of course as in all areas of relationships, we sometimes see what's not there--good or bad. So use all your clues to make your decision. and ask your buddies for a second opinion if you're feeling uncertain. However, remember that if you don't ask her out, you'll never find out if she'd say yes. If you do ask her out and get a negative response, at least you took the shot and don't have to continue wondering. Make your move and eventually you'll succeed with a woman who's a good match for you!

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